I’m sitting here at my computer feeling content and successful. I believe you should be reading this feeling as good as I feel and I believe I know how you can feel successful. Everyday.
See, I believe we often make the mistake of not recognising our own success.
Success is usually attributed to BIG life events. Great exam results, acceptance to college or University, doing your dream job.
Success can also be attributed to smaller every day events. I made my kids a healthy breakfast, when my kid got cross I dealt with it calmly, and even I arrived at the school gate on time without getting hot and bothered. These statements may say a lot about what I personally struggle to manage everyday but when I do them now I remember to feel the success of achievement.
I’ve got to the age where BIG life successes are rare and unlikely to come around out. Most importantly what this does is build with us a sense of well being which then carries us through the rest of the challenges of the day.
Success can be an abstract term but it can be measured.
It is only when we measure it that we can feel it.
So go on. Congratulate yourself for the good things you have done today.
I’ll do it too.
I woke up early thanks to the lovely sunlight coming into my bedroom and had cuddles with my youngest son, Max. I helped him find his clothes. From the bed. So actually I enabled him to be more independent. He also went downstairs and made his own breakfast (well so we all believed… we later found out he hadn’t had any breakfast at all but we also remedied that with some hot buttered toast).
I made pancakes for Bear, got their swimming things ready, their pack lunches ready and even had a shower before the boys went to school with their Dad. On time. I’ve also now done an hours work for a new client and hung out the washing on the line.
Every time I remember all the good things I’ve achieved today I feel good. You can have the same feeling too. The best thing is the more you remember to tell yourself well done the better you feel and the more natural it becomes. It’s exponential.
Now the funny thing is I didn’t set out to write all this today. I was just going to let you know about a delicious hot chocolate recipe I’ve made up to replaced my morning coffee.
I called it a recipe for success because I love drinking it and it makes me feel much better than the coffee ever does.
Here it is so you can try it out. It’s the kind of recipe that is very open to adjustment and play to make it suit your own taste.
I like it to taste spicy and rich to remind me of chocolates Aztec and Mayan roots.
1 tsp of good quality cocoa powder.
1/2 tsp of cinnamon powder.
1/2-1 tsp of Reishi mushroom powder.
1/2-1 tsp of raw honey.
1/2 cup of just boiled hot water.
1 large splash of goat milk or coconut milk or your preferred milk.
I put all the powdered ingredients in my cup. Pour on half of the hot water. Add the milk. I stir in the honey after the milk so it keeps all the enzymes alive. Then I top it up with hot water. I do it this way as I like the ritual of only using one teaspoon to stir and I never put a used spoon in my precious honey jar.
I use raw honey because of the it’s many beneficial properties not least it’s active enzymes.
I’ve started added the Reishi mushroom powder to give my immune system a boost.
Give it a go and let me know how you got on.